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23.8.10
Good News!
OMG! Terkejut sebab xsangka akan dapat rumah itu... I mean, dengan kejam nye orang RHB tuh cakap diorang xnak kasi loan dekat aku sebab status kerja aku ialah Contract? Hello.. Gaji aku sudah melayakkan rumah berharga RM250k tau... (dah kira siap dah) hah!
Kalau sebelum nih, jenguh aku dok ding dong dengan RHB, pagi tadi, bila Abg nak dapatkan Advance aku balik daripada Pemaju, diorang kata Pemaju dah lama HOLD kan rumah nih untuk aku. Eh, betul ke? Macam tak percaya?
Satu lagi macam gimon, "Eh, xde orang nak beli rumah tu ker?"
Heheh... tak perlah. Asalkan dapat lah rumah sendiri, kan? Harap2 lah kali ini dengan Slip Gaji aku yang Cun tuh, dapatlah rumah itu... hehehe..
20.8.10
迷惑(read: meiwaku)
Meiwaku is a Japanese word that has a nebulous definition. It approaches the English word 'inconvenience' in meaning but it encompasses a much greater range of ideas. Most simply put, it's anything that causes trouble or shame for other members of the groups you belong to. Each person has the right to take pride in the reputation of their group but at the same time has a responsibility to maintain that reputation.
The core of meiwaku is the idea of group membership. Everyone is defined by the groups they are a part of: the neighborhood you live in, the school you graduated from, and even the company you work for. If you bring dishonor or hurt the reputation of the groups you're in, it reflects on the whole group. Because of this, there's a huge amount of self-policing and peer pressure within groups to conform to the standards of the group and of society.
Meiwaku range from walking in late to a meeting to executives embezzling funds from their company or accepting bribes to car crashes. The only way to atone for these meiwaku is to apologize profusely in an overly melodramatic fashion by western standards: "I deeply, deeply, regret that a person of my wretched status inflicted a meiwaku on my esteemed fellow members." Another example of these apologies are the yearly statements released by the Japanese government on December 7, apologizing to the Japanese people for the great meiwaku they committed in 1941. You don't even have to know the person to have a meiwaku inflicted on you. Say you work for a large company, for example Enron. It's discovered that several executives have been embezzling funds from the company. Even though you have never met the executives or even know who they are, they have committed an atrocious meiwaku on the every employee of the company.
The whole concept of meiwaku is meant to preserve the wa; 和. Wa is the Japanese word for "peace" or "harmony" and represents the absence of conflict. Everyone can accept that social harmony is preferable to individualistic anarchy but in the United States, social harmony usually is balanced against the right of an individual to make their own choices. In Japan, however, wa wins out nearly every time; people having more loyalty to the harmony of the group than to their own interests. In fact, wa itself is frequently not only a means but a goal in and of itself for society. By minimizing and apologizing for meiwaku, both accidental and intentional, that are committed, people create a state of wa.
Sources:
- http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wa_(Japan)
- Confucius Lives Next Door by T. R. Reid
Tulah, perasan pandai sangat! (refer to cerita mamat K*REA tempat kerja aku in previous entry)
本当に迷惑ですよ黄鵡やろう。
18.8.10
Di masa lapang :)
Esok nak balik awal ke? Hari Jumaat lah bila dah stabil. Uh, syoknyer... Nak masak nasi lemak lah untuk berbuka Hari Jumaat nanti.
Some of my friends and me myself, I admit is soooo intrigue for Online Shopping. Yes, the Click and Buy Scheme of the Millenium. heheh... If previously, in my student years, I'd looove to release stress by going online shopping and closing the browser after Check Out... hahaha
Currently, tak main lah Shopping Online nih... I looovveeee to go to MAS... pastuh berangan pergi Paris lah Japan lah... hahaha... Pastuh tutp jer browser.. Aaahhh, puas.. hehehe
Oklah, itu saja aktiviti yang dapat saya lakukan semasa menunggu Call dari customer... Tiap2 hari buat macam nih... Iine...
Sorejya, Selamat Berbuka Puasa!
Repost: previous post is not Yamapi's pic
Thank you for Ms/Mr. Guest for pointing out the mistake.
Nampaknya, ke-miha-an aku sudah tumpul. Kalau dulu hebat2 jer aku nak cerita pasal Jyaniz.. haha Sekarang ilmu aku dah tumpul (T_#)! aku hanya dapat berharap artikel2 dalam Internet je lepas balik dari Japan. Oh, sedihnyer...
Therefore, again I would like to apologize for the wrong post and would like to apologize to Yamapi's fans plus, Iseya Yusuke's fans... woh is actually the true person for the picture below...
Now I know how difficult it is to be a Reporter/Magazine Columinist etc. Wow, they really have to get their facts, right... Or not, they'll probably get sued. I hope I won't get sued though... hehe
Yosh! Kena benkyou(traslated: Belajar)... I hope this movie, "Ashita no Joe" will be released in Malaysia too... (Ok, I'm not getting my hopes up too much.. hahaha)... Ada pernah ker Movie2 yang best2 mcm nih keluar kat Wayang...
Sore deha, Ijou.
P/S: Mr/Ms. Guest, Jangan mare yer..
12.8.10
Malam Ramadhan Pertama
10.8.10
Yuni Fan Club
Penaung nya ialah of course, Mama Yuni <- That's me!
Pengerusi, of course, @Didie-chan
Ahli kelab: 4 orang (maknanya other than Didie-chan and me, there's another 2 ahli... hehe
Perjumpaan sebulan sekali.
Hahaha... Memang kelakar bunyinyer, tp, Mama Yuni sangat terharu, ok. :P Buat masa ni dah ade 2 perjumpaan hahaha... Perbincangan juga termasuk sponsoring Yuni scholarship belajar kat France... hahahaha *majide omoshiroi*
Yuni kalau boleh bercakap,pasti;
"Nanjya kono obahan tachi wa" (translate: Ape lah makcik2 nih)
Satu2nya gambar yang menjadi pada perjumpaan lepas:
Sempena malam Ramadhan pertama, Yuni bersemangat untuk sembahyang terawikh bersama Ayah heheh..
Sorry Yuni... Maybe on weekends, Mama will bring you to the mosque, ok :)
Salam Rmadhan semua!
10.6.10
Shell Batu 3 kat Federal Highway
Ok.. One happy Saturday, I spent the whole day watching Shrek4 @Signature Gardens with Didie and Yuni- The All Girls Outing- Arrived at 11pm and went to see Didie @Sushi Zanmai. Delicious sushi! But a bit of lousy slow service when there's a lot of customers.
Yuni was already excited when she ran here and there letting mama chase for her @Gardens *penat*
Then it was the movies... I thought she would sleep out of the tiredness of walking, when she actually stayed awake the whole time, watching Shrek4!! Since it was a Premium Class seat, Yuni sat a bit *sempit* in between mama and Didie... heheh... (Sorry, we didn't get you a 3-D specs, dear!)
Since Yuni could walk, mama left the Quinny 2010 @home guessing she wouldn't need it. When after the movies on the way to MidValley, she protestedly sat on the floor... *I guess, it is a sign=I'm penat oredi la mama....* Then we carried her to the Info Center to borrow a Stroller..
(It's BM starting from here)
"Stroller pukul 11am tadi dah habis kak..." said the Info-man. So? Takde proposal lain ke? Takde pon nak mintak maaf ke ape. Memang service kat Malaysia macam Taik! Cuba kalau aku pakai gelang emas sampai takat siku? Rasanya, service akan lebih elok, tak? *Typical-katak dalam tempurung-Malaysian* Kalau kat Jepon tuh, dia usahakan juga nak dapatkan option lain. Sebab dia memang nak jaga customers feelings supaya good impression berbanding Department Store yang lain... Malaysia Boleh konon.. *Hisshh...* (Yang menteri2 pergi overseas tuh, bagi lah comment/information pada rakyat, supaya rakyat boleh sedar...) or maybe diorang memang dapat layanan superb, tuh yang xcomment ape2? *Saiyaku- Kono yo no nakani kane ga areba subete OK dato Yuni-chan ni oshietakinai noni!*
Oopppsss, terpesong dari tajuk plak.
So, dah habis shopping semua, start la nak balik. On the way balik tuh, hujan lebat giller. Memang tahap yang kalau wiper xpasang yang terpantas... memang tak nampak ape2. Yuni, in the other hand sudah pun doze-off on her car seat kerana kepenatan. Tiba2 depan RTM dekat Federal Highway tuh, Wiper Kura2 Satria ku terpelanting ke atas jalan. Side driver plak tuh. Side Yuni ok jer. Aaahh... cuak2. Tepon Abg; "Kalau tak nampak berhenti dulu sampai hujan reda" katanya.
Aku? Kat lane kanan tuh beb. Jenuh nak ke lane kiri untuk berhentikan kereta. So, gamble jerlah. Dengan kepala terteleng2 nengok cermin side Yuni yang lebih clear. Sambil2 tengok side mirror for the garisan putih. Gitulah keadaannyer sampai Shell
sebelum Batu3 Tol. Aku pon cariklah wiper konon nak beli... Memang ada... RM41 gituh! Mahal gillerrrrrrrrr....
Tapi, service nyer memang BEST! Tuan kedai Shell tuh siap kelluar gih tengok kereta, nak determine size wiper ape aku should pakai. And then, dah beli samapi 3 orang tolong pasangkan tuh... Peewwwiiitt... Sama ada diorang ingat aku anak dara (uweeekkk) and ade hati nak ngorat ataupun diorang memang jenis rajin bekerja dan memberi servis yang Excellent. heheh (Sure gakkari tengok Yuni dalam kereta tengah tido... hahahaha!)
Perjalanan jauh lagi... nak sampai Kelang tuh... Birthday Party sepupu Abg. Dah bosar2 pon nak birthday party. Well, duduk dengan Makcik IL yang xde anak, so dapatlah layanan yang macam tuh. Teme choushi notten jyanei yo~! Sampai dah lambat. Balik awal! That's the way Aha Aha... I like it!!... Balik and put Yuni to sleep.
Gillor lah... Wiper terpelanting tuh... Korang kalau ade chance nak pasang/tukar wiper, sila lah make sure Wiper itu dipasang betul2 supaya tidak melayang2 nanti.. heheh
Ijou, cerita Wiper Melayang-ku
4.6.10
Kudaranai Updates & Kou-chan!
Pagi tadi kat LDP nk ke Puchong, ada satu kereta nih macam kena hijack! Tingkap, cermin depan ngan cermin belakang semua pecah. Tak ada orang kat dalam. Macam abandoned pon ade. Remuk jugaklah bahagian depan... macam accident, tapi dah xde orang... Ade polis aje. Nak amek gambar, tp karang polis tuh marah susah plak aku. Haisshh...
Sebenarnye, next week Wedding Tuty kat Mersing. Kan dulu aku ade cerita pasal Tuty's Wedding+Tioman Trip, kan?
Dah nak jadi kenyataan dah... Rasa seronok plak. Harap2 Yuni nye joutai banzen pada hari2 itu... Amin!
Pengalaman aku masa gih Langkawi yang boleh diaaplikasikan di Tioman:
1. Daily essentials; Wajib bawak! Jangan Tinggal! Maha kalau beli kat pulau
2. Sun Block; Wajib! Aku pernah beli sunblock RM35 untuk botol kecik jer kat Langkawi.. Majide MAHAL!
3. Map; Aku pernah gak beli... RM15 per map! Aho ka!!
4. Makanan kat pulau xperlu high expectation. Agak kurang sedap... (Lousy! kata review dalam internet) Kalau rajin, bawak Sardin, roti, biskut... *at least cover breakfast*
5. Enjoy! and Plan! kalau nak lepak2 pon kena plan gakss... :p
Kalau xsalah aku, Tioman xde benda sgt nak shopping compared to Langkawi. More to vacation :) Even though Free Duty location...
Ok lah... mahu sambung kerja. Teyuka... Jumaat mmg agak lembap sket clients datang, so... Yukkuri de shigoto shitai!
hehehe... Please enjoy the below pics... Dia pon pernah kerja Help Desk/Call Center tau!.. heheh
23.3.10
Yuni's trip to KLIA @ 10 months young
Kalau nak tahu sekarang ada environment friendly underwears :) Made out of organic materials. Sloggi is the name. Meaning, that when you're done wearing it and it's not anymore appropriate to be donated, it could be buried in soil. hehehe Lessens garbage disposal :) I am yet to know about the price (I do hope it's reasonable tho)... It's quite famous in other parts of the world. Ada sesiapa tahu Sloggi ada jual kat Mydin tak?
P/S: I should be considering to buy new underwears. (Nope, you shouldn't consider it.. You should just buy it.. hhahaha
27.2.10
Yuni, Atok & Pringles
23.11.09
Bobson-ku putus lagi… (Potong saja lah!!)
7.11.09
Reunion dinner at last
Anyway, my day started of today at 1:30 a.m when Yuni woke me up from her sleep. Pindahkan Yuni next to me and bf until she went back to sleep.
Then, at 3 a.m she woke up again... I was too lazy to layan her.. So, I ignored her... Eventually, she was happily talking to herself for 1/2 hour until she made the "I am fed-up" cry... Ape lagi... bf and she quickly went to sleep... *sigh*
I am getting used to this... *horror* Abg didn't wake up at all... *Bestnye jadi laki aku*.. Anyway, she's back asleep now at 9:30am... after morning drive to McDonalds... haha.. *dah kawin pon breakfast McDonald lagi tuh...*
So, sekarang ni nak wat laundry sat... Grandma is off to her Volunteering Job at Seroja... So, home alone with Yuni for now.. :)
Can't wait for tonight!
7.9.09
Kisah Lucu Anak Celik IT
"Mama!!!!Yuni tak abes lagi laaaaaa...Nak kencing lagi..."
OK. Fine, mama mintak maaf sbb tak sabar2 nak mandikan Yuni (dah pukul 12,ok..) Lepas bersihkan kencing...tiba-tiba dia nangis lagi...Aikk? takkan nak kencing lagi...mama pon buat muke toye teruskan dengan aktiviti membersihkan bontot Yuni...Tiba-tiba...
Teremburlah taik2 (excuse me, ya...a bit gross) cair - sbb Yuni minum susu je...belum debut solid food lagi :P Tambah pula exclusive breasfeeding...maka, masam betullah taiknya... Sabar je mama bersihkan taik yang dah membanjiri tikar getah Yuni...Tiba-tiba Yuni pancut lagi...dan lagi...(Jumlah keseluruhan 3kali pancut) *sigh* Masa tuh mama dah give up. Mana taknya...taiknya memancut sampai kena kaki dan tangan mama gituh!...hahaha
Ape lagi...angkut sampai sink...cuci bawah flowing tap water...Terkezut dia rasa air sejuk...hhhahah Lepas tuh terus mandi...(taik still lagi berlumuran atas tikar getah dalam bilik) Oh, mana ayah? Ayah balik kampung ambil nenek dengan Pak Long...semalam dah bgtau kan? hehehe...
Gitulah kisah si cilk ini...Mama jer yg tak paham Yuni nak apa...*sigh*
"Tuhla...Yuni dah pesan awal2 suruh study 'Baby Language!'...tak mau"
Itulah cerita pada hari ini...Semalam tengok Oprah cerita pasal Pokok Sakura-Cherry Blossom trees kat NY...Teringin la pulak nak tanam pokok sakura kat halaman rumah nih...hhahah..*berangan mode* Pokok tuh rasanya xberbunga musim panas...Tunggu musim bunga kat Malaysia nih sampai bile pon xtimbul bunga2 nya... Oklah...I'll leave you with Yuni and stroller picture ...dia dah start merengek tuh...need to attend to her...Babai!
Nota kaki: Play Gym hadiah dari Mas...I improvise dah jadi portable skarang...bawak dalam stroller lagi tuh...hehe Thanks!
1.9.09
Dah naik kepala Fieza nih...
I was a bit late for work As soon as I was in the company’s driveway, I saw one empty parking spot and without any further a due, I quickly parked in.
I was not aware that that parking spot was my MD’s parking spot! *shocking!!*
Luckily he was not the “I am Boss” type and he forgave me Well, actually, I was the one who came to his place immediately after noticing that he parked right near my Satria’s butt and apologized. *sweat drops* Colleagues were very astonished about me parking there while my boss said to me,
“Hey, It’s OK. Let’s just leave it there as it is…No harm done” – Was it just me, or there was a small cynical smile on his face.
Hahaha! Fiza dah melebih dari MD nih…kehkehkeh…Belum confirm lagi tuh dah parking tempat MD…Caitt! Tak sengajalah…
So, pengajaran pada hari ini;
Jangan datang lambat gih kerja. Datang awal sikit for parking. Heheh
(Sorry la Yuni lepas nih mama takleh tido ngan Yuni lama2 sangat)
29.8.09
Warning: Random
Jangan gelak tau Tuty... (Tuty tgh OT ari nih)
Aku nak start wat chocolate chip tau ari nih..hehe..
I LOVE to EAT!!
Cooking? So..so.. I only cook when I'm in the mood...Yup, still haven't changed since 'zaman bujang'...Sorry!
Sebenarnye, semalam was Oka*zaki-san last day in Malaysia. I may not be seeing him anymore, unless he comes for holiday :) Yesterday night had to drag my MD from Subang Airport back to office since I left my belongings in the office...Talk about looong hours of meeting with supplier!
So, anyway...I reached home at 8pm...Passed Iftar...Takpe, supplier sediakan Kurma Yusuf Taiyoob...hehe (beli kat stesen minyak je katanye, tapi cukup considerate la kan? Considering they are chinese...baik sungguh!)
Balik aje Yuni dah kena paksa masuk buai...Sorry grandma! Clean up myself pastuh bf Yuni sat.. Usually I balik on time, so, like after 5pm Yuni xnak tido dah...nak tunggu mama.. Tapi semalam sampai pukul 8 dia berjaga, ngantuk giller tuh...dah gosok2 mata...So, put her to sleep at 9 pm dalam buai...(sbb ngantuk sgt, boleh dia tidur dalam buai malam2)
Well, up to 12:30am...still tido...had no choice, angkat letak atas katil (buai kat living room) Tak lama lepas letak atas katil...Bunyi2an keluar dari pampers...hahaha... Mmg sah beyak BESAR... mcm Mega Sale...
Lepas clean up (dibuat oleh ayah)...Dia start bercakap sampai pukul 2 am...mama ngantuk, so ayahla layan...(biasala tuh...lega lepas melepas...nak habaq satu kampung!)
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End of ceritara Yuni.
Long weekend! A lot to do! Nak wat choc chip... (At last berguna juga mixer hadiah kawen tahun lepas tuh...Thank you to Hailwa, Najmah & As!)
Lepas tuh nak wat baju kurung Yuni :) Kain dah beli...nak start melakar je nih...
Other than that...routine biasalah...laundry, kemas bilik..actually, nak usha2 gak kasut kerja, baju kerja...yelah, skarang xkerja kilang dah...heheh
Isogashii isogashii!! (bzbzbzbzbzbz)
P/S: Aku tak sempat tgk email korang semalam...Bukak pose jadi tak? Kat mane?? hehe...Jangan lupa aku tau...hehe
25.7.09
Update Sabtu
Comel tak? Oya baka de gomennachai!
Mata dah penat nih...Abg dah tido, Yuni pon dah tido *sigh* Tinggal mama saja yang belum tido..
Hari ni grandma Yuni telah membeli education board untuk Yuni :) Mama pon start mengajar Yuni numbers sambil ketuk2 board dengan marker ala-ala cikgu skolah gitu..hehe
" One Two Three Four Five Six Seven Eight Nine Ten"
"Ichi Ni San Shi Go Roku Nana Hachi Kyu Jyu"
Grandpa tanya, Bahasa Melayu punye takde ke? Suruh Ayah dia ajar la...kasik lorat2 Utara sket nombor tuh...mamanye kurang arif heheh..
Seronok ajar Yuni, hari ini aje dia bercakap2 banyak (bahasa dia la...) Kadang2 tuh menjerit2 seronok especially bila dia tengok mulut mama ngan grandma bercakap...Dia pon nak ikut jugak...Berdiri mahu, duduk tak mahu...tapi meniarap belum lagi tuh...hehe... Yuni kena kuatkan otot tangan sebab kaki dah cukup kuat...nanti esok mama tuam & urut ye...
Yuni dah pandai main...awalnye :) Pandang muka mama je dia sengih2...gerammnyeee...Menangis pon dah kurang sekarang...setakat bila terkejut dari tidur je...mostly time nangis tak puas hati tuh ditukarkan dengan jeritan2 melontarkan suara...
Tak sabarnye nak bawa Yuni balik Perak jumpe Tok Embun next month...mesti dah boleh main dengan Aiman...heheh
Btw, saya dah tukar skin baru *duuuhh!* Sambil tuh cube2 widget...Nih nak promote ada sorang artis Jepun celup nih...hehe..Member mase kat AAJ dulu.. skarang dengar citer dah wat Album kat Jepun, betul ke? hehe Suara ade kelaaasss! Should cube pasaran Malaysia juga, sbb saya sokong! hehe...Kalau dah glamer giller2 nanti boleh la saya 'brag' pernah ber-duet ngan dia kat karaoke dulu lagu "Kawa no nagare no youni" hahaha...
Check it out!
p/s: Saya hanya ada album gambar je...album lagu belum lagi la...
3.7.09
Alhamdulillah...
Alhamdulillah, selesai juga seminggu Uyuni dijaga oleh neneknye...hehe..Saya tahu grandma bersungguh2 cuba memahami cucu kesayangannya ini and tend to her needs, tapi, biasalah, nareru made...it really takes time :)
*Ibunya pon ambil 3 minggu (berseorangan di siang hari bersama Uyuni tau nak biasakan diri*
Anyway, Yuni mmg bijak dan banyak akalnya. Dia dah pandai gunakan secret weaponnya iaitu menangis sekuat hati yang dimulakan dengan mencebik bibir. Bila dia mahukan sesuatu dengan betul2 cepat dan pantas, mulalah dia gunakan weaponnya itu. hehe..
Hari kedua mama pergi kerja, habis Yuni kerjakan nenek, ya?
Sampai "down" sungguh nenek lepas mama pulang. Terus tidur tak jenguk2 Yuni dah...hehe... Mama pon risau juga tengok Yuni nangis2 macam itu. Nanti mama buat tangkal unutk Yuni, ya? Anak patung kecil yang berbau mama ataupun baju mama yang tak basuh lagi...hehe.. *harap2 kurang sikit rindu Yuni pada mama*
Pasal perangai bila bukak baju je diam tuh..Mama mintak maaf banyak2, bukan saja pada Yuni...tapi pada ayah, nenek, atuk dan semua yang bakal jaga Yuni...
Masa mama mengandungkan Yuni dulu, bilik mama panaaaasssss sangat, jadi, mama tidur tak pakai baju...tak sangka menurun ek...hehehe...padahal, atuk dah pasang air-cond untuk Yuni...tapi masih nak telanjang..hehe
Satu aje yang mama masih tak dapat jawapan. Mungkin kawan2 mama boleh jawabkan untuk mama...Macam mana nak kurangkan anak terkejut2 masa tidur kalu anak tak mahu bedung?
Please, anyone??
30.5.09
Granpa&Granma buying a stroller for 1 month young Uyuni!
A few achievements yesterday:
1. I berjaya mandikan Uyuni!! *yeay!* Orang kata, kalau dah terdesak tu, sakit mana pon redah juga demi anak...heheh
2. Berjaya menuam, sapu minyak UE,bedakkan ngan tepung ubi, pakai barut, pampers, baju dalam keadaan senyap aman tenteram tanpa sebarang tangisan dari Uyuni :P Balik jer grandma ngan Mak Ngah dia dah tengah menyusu...hehe...*Tak sangka saya boleh buat..*
3. Went to SJMC for 1 month checkup and 2nd time Hep. B dosage. Dr. Ali check fracture, dia kata healing very fast. Bonjol dekat fracture tuh is a sign of healing...ala2 kene simen gituh. Alhamdulillah.
When he was about to cucuk the jarum, I just couldn't bare to see her. Bukan apa, dia tengah tidur separa mamai masa letak kat examination bed. Doc tonggeng kan bontot dia and I went behind Abg. Half of me couldn't bare seeing her sbb kesian and the other half tak sanggup nak face the cry after cucuk.
Me and Abg dah siap dengan BM in bottle dalam beg to make her quiet after nangis. Konon!
Cett...Dia jerit bagai nak rabak sekejap. Lepas tuh terus diam. Tak nangis langsung. Ayah dia cepat2 pegang lepas kene cucuk...tak nangis tak apa. As though terkejut mimpi ngeri kejap. Sangat terkujat, okay? Bajet nangis tak abes ler kasi gamat satu SJMC...Rupe2 nye sebaliknye...Bagus Uyuni! Teruskan usaha...heheh
Itulah update untuk hari ini. Update separa teruja saya.
Sekian. Kena attend to Uyuni. Dah tiba schedule mandi dia :)
18.5.09
Daddy holds 50% share in taking care of baby
Enough sleep and rest helps pumping more breast milk.
Hmmm...Betul ke?
Tp, semalam telah membuktikannya. I was sooooo tired due to menjaga Yuni yg takmau tidur siang... She wanted hugs from granma I guess...And I had to give her a bath since daddy on single guy night out. (cett...masih perasan single)
Plus terpaksa melayan kerenah maid yg takut nk jumpe doktor. I mean, pergi klinik bukannye kene operation terus...Haiyah! Plus another "baby" grandmother who cannot berpisah with the maid even for 1 second...She didn't want to let the maid go to clinic even with my mother...another Haiyah! Plus another daddy who whenever given chores, like to send maid to clinic, likes to dilli dally...masa tu lah nk makan etc... triple Haiyah there...Puts me in a short term stress yg akhirnye...Abg la kene...heheh
As soon as he gets home (nasib biak dia dah makan malam kat luar), kene hentam abes2 lah...I refused to sleep near the baby's buai, refused to do anything to help him with the baby. Now its YOUR turn to look after her crankiness...sampai pagi...
Of course, mother instinct kata Yuni misses her daddy. Balik2 tangan mommy and grandma dia...kadang2 tangan grandpa...Mana tangan daddy??Sampai mandikan pon bukan tangan daddy...
Lepas daddy dia angkat aje...terus diam! Letak atas buai right after that tak nangis pon.. Waaaahhh.... Nih dah jadi anak daddy nih..kene ikut gih mancing besar nanti :P Bangun pukul 2 pagi ingatkan dah lapar...rupe2nye nak tidur atas katil pulak in between mommy and daddy...until 3:30am bile dia mengamuk. Mummy suruh daddy check bontot...Ya, sangkaan benar belaka...Yak yak..
While daddy baru jer habis bersihkan bontot dia...right before tarik pampers... "PREEETTTT" Keluar stok baru...seb baik daddy tak tarik pampers lagi...kalu tak abes la bantal and cadar semua...Mummy hanya mampu gelak saja...:)
So, lepas man-handling, barula BF lepas tuh tidur...7:30 am...another BF...lepas tuh mummy masuk dalam buai terus tidur sampai waktu mandi pukul 9:30am...
Tapi mummy dah pandai dah...lepas buai Yuni tidur..suruh maid masak air panas...nak mandi...sementara tengah tunggu air masak, perah dulu susu! Masa tuhla dapat 1 kali pam 100ml...terasa sangat syahdu menyayat hati...Plus rasa motivated sket nak pam lagi...heheh...
Mummy pon kene jaga diri dalam pantang..makan nak kena jaga etc....Time management sangatla penting masa nih...Sampai bile nak berharap orang buatkan semua sekali untuk kita, betul tak? Kalau setakat nak jagakan Yuni masa tengah tidur tuh or masa play-time dia...tak kisahla...Tp yg penting para-para BAPA / AYAH juga memainkan peranan penting...
From experience semalam, barula terasa, Siapa kata bapa/ayah punye peranan tuh kurang penting masa jaga anak? Hey, anak mana tak rindu kat bapanya? Unconciously, mesti rindu punye, betul tak? heheh...







