Sorry for the looooong silence...I bet some may have known...
Saya sudah selamat melahirkan anak perempuan sulung saya on the 1st May 2009 at 2:46am. Baby girl saya is 3.97kg (thank you very much for healthy japanese food!) length is 48.50cm at that time.
NUR UYUNI BINTI SYARYFUDEEN (Maksudnya; Spring of life - Mata air dalam syurga - Pls refer Surah Al-Dakkhan)
Alhamdulillah Baby dan mommy sihat walafiat. Doc comment; "It was an easy delivery, no complications during the process"
Tapi, on the 1st day, my mom suspected something was wrong with her left arm. It was definitely weaker than the right one. Peads didn't mention anything at that time...just a bit of jaundice...that's all...
She was crying everytime i held her the wrong position, of course pada masa tu i didn't know about the bone...After 1 week at in-laws, i made an earlier check-up with peads, and they confirmed that my baby has a Left Clavicle Fracture...Kerana itulah bila breast feed on my right side, she cried the whole way. (In-laws like to tenyeh formula milk to her at that time, making me even more stressfull at that time :( )
Siapa kata melahirkan anak itu satu perkara mudah? Tolak sakit masa melahirkan, sakit pula masa berpantang. Keinginan nak breastfeed yang kadang2 tak kesampaian pada sesetengah orang...that is more stressful! ( Imagine tiap2 hari orang di sekeliling asyik berkata, "Susu badan tak cukup la tuh...biasalah...bukan semua orang sama...etc..etc..." - There was no moral support whatsoever at that time...)
Despite all those negative comments around, i managed to go through it for 1 week until i was at my mom's house. My mom supports breastfeeding a lot...because she was fully breast-fed when she was a baby. She knows a lot of goodness in it. She quickly prohibited me from using any formula milk at that time. Paksa baby suckle every 2 hours and after just 2 days, i was able to produce sufficient milk and tak perlu minum air panas suam bergelen2 before breast feeding. I AM HAPPY...Alhamdulillah!
Cabaran memang datang ketika kita dalam perubahan. For me, everything is a valuable experience. After this, I will remember to stand up to my rights as the mother and how i want to raise up my child, bukan mengikut kata orang sekeliling bagaikan lalang. About the baby's bone fracture, it was a clean cut...a stable fracture, therefore 100% self-healing...But of course, grandma is using her spiritual way of healing..(read: Ayat Quran, minyak dari Mekah etc...)
Please pray for my baby's health.