Innalillah...Al fatihah

Repekah Bt Abdullah
93-6-6
Tanah Perkuburan Lipat Kajang
Kelang, Selangor.

Ini address baru Opah.

Opah Din telah menghembuskan nafasnya yang terakhir pada 8/9/2009 pukul 9:20 malam disamping anak, menantu dan cucu cicit yang tak seberapa di Kelang. Abg ada di sana semasa Opah menghembuskan nafasnya yang terakhir. Saya tak dapat ke sana since attending to Yuni. Dia masih kecil.

Semoga roh Opah dirahmati Allah dan berada dalam golongan orang-orang yang beriman. Amin.
Kawan-kawan, kalau tak keberatan, sedekahkanlah Al-Fatihah untuk Opah Din

Anak-anak buah Abg semuanya menyaksikan peristiwa tersebut 1st hand. Yang paling kecil; baru nak masuk 2 tahun bulan 12 ni. Ibunya nak kasi tengok dengan mata sendiri supaya mereka ada kesedaran dari awal. Supaya mereka faham, yang bernyawa pasti akan mati. Itu adalah Qada’ dan Qadar Allah.

Si kecil: Ibu, esok ibu pergi kubur ke?
Ibu : Pergi.
Si kecil: Kakak nak ikut juga. Kakak nak tengok rumah baru Opah.

Conversation si anak dengan ibunya. Kecil-kecil sudah dapat menerima qada’ dan qadar Allah, itulah training yang dapat si ibu berikan pada anak-anaknya.
InsyaAllah anak-anak ini bakal membesar dengan elok, InsyaAllah.

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Speaking of melawat orang sakit / nazak.

Yesterday, I had the chance to kiss Opah’s forehead before she was prayed. People say, you have to be strong spiritually during this time because, you don’t want to catch any “bad energy” (which old folks like to refer as ‘tegur’).

You also should not cry too much as crying doesn’t help the dead at all. It only increases “seksa”.

So, prepare yourself with a strong mind and also, keep on reading 3 Quls, ayat Qursi etc. May it remind you at all time of Allah the All Mighty.

After coming back home after the visit, I had headache & my throat was in pain. I took 2 pills of Vitamin C, and a painkiller, since I felt as if there was a nose blockage coming by. Not long after that, I became very hot, 38deg. Yuni didn’t want to be near me *pandai betul anak mama nih* As I offered to BF, she pulled away from me. I had to ask her grandma to attend to her since I’m not feeling well. Yuni slept in the cradle for the whole night and I, sponged by Abg the whole night. Alhamdulillah, the fever reduced as I woke up in the morning.

Spoke to mama (Yuni’s grandma) about the fever. She said, you have to be strong especially when visiting the sick. You might get infected too. She said that she too had fever after visiting one of our relative in hospital having breast cancer.

Kalau orang tua pon boleh sakit macam nih…Apalah lagi budak kecil. So, advices, not to bring small kids (especially babies) to hospital (except for jabs/due to sick) for visiting. Lagilah tengah musim H1N1 nih…*sigh*

P/S: Yong, aku demam semalam…ko YM ngan mak aku ek…hehehe…Kepala pening sikit…tak fully recover lagi la tuh…

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