Arafo.. Aratsu.. Arama...

"Marriage is the union (of the representatives) of two different surnames, in friendship and in love, in order to continue the posterity of the former sages, and to furnish those who shall preside at the sacrifices to heaven and earth, at those in the ancestral temple, and at those at the altars to the spirits of the land and grain."

(Ikut mazhab Confucious)

Konsep perkahwinan dalam IslamDalam Islam,perkahwinan adalah suatu ibadah dan sunnah Rasulullah SAW yang mana merupakan suatu daripada tuntutan fitrah manusia.

(Ikut Islam)

Syok kahwin... *majide*

Tapi, tanggungjawab sangatlah berat. Siapa kata kawin tu senang? Dari segi prosedur memanglah agak mudah. Tapi, tanggungjawab tu sedar tak sedar amat berat. (lain lah kalau ada orang tu jenis tak sedar... hehe) Bila fikir2 balik... aku dah kawin 1 tahun lebih, adakah aku dah laksanakan tanggungjawab aku sebagai seorang isteri? Sebagai seorang menantu? Sebagai seorang ibu?

Sebenarnya agak teruja lepas tengok Japan dorama - Around 40 (Arafo).. Walaupun aku masih lagi Around 20 (Aratsu)... heheh... Tiba-tiba rasa lain pulak feeling dia... Yappa, Onna tte iyasarenaito fukechau yo~~! *Doki-doki kan... Waku-waku kan..* Yappa, Din mmg kurang paham sket feeling tengok cerita jepun nih... Tapi, dia feeling betul tengok Anime Jepun (Gake no ue no Ponyo) *wakannaaaaiii*

Agaknya aku ni kurang meluangkan masa untuk diri sendiri... Yelah, sejak ada anak ni... Memang ke mana-mana (except kerja) aje dengan anak... Bukannya aku tak suka... Aku suka bawak Yuni jalan-jalan ke mana-mana saja... tapi, kadang2 nak lah travel light... hehe :)

Takpelah, Sabtu this week ada reunion Batch 959... hehe *sangat teruja*

Sebab boleh balik rumah lambat sket ari tuh...huhu... Asyik Abg aje yg balik lambat... mama pun nak juge... (pinjam ayat Yong) hahaha... Ok lah.. Till next time, buhbye!!

Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri

Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri Maaf Zahir Batin

Dari Deen, Fieza and Uyuni :)

Maafkan kami kalau ada salah dan silap dalam pertuturan, perbuatan dan sangkaan.

Maafkan kami...jeng jeng jeng jeng Maafkan kami...jeng jeng jeng jeng..

Maafkan kami Maafkan kami Maafkan kami

Ugg Boots & Uyuni

Happy 4th month birthday!

Ugg boots are available for everyone. I wish Yuni could have a pair…hehe…She’ll be very cute in it. Click on the ad for more info...

Sorry mommy couldn’t update your milestone monthly. Mommy could only do a 4 month milestones, I hope its okay with you :)

Let’s see…Yuni could;

1. Smile at people, especially smile when seeing mommy. Whether its morning, afternoons, evenings, nights plus middle of the night…Yuni will always smile seeing mommy’s face…*cayang anak mama!*
2. Sense mommy’s presence/absence in the room. Whether mommy’s going for work in the morning or back for lunch in the afternoons or back home in the evenings. Yuni will always greet with a small “manja” cry. Hehe
3. Lift her head and shoulders when she’s lying down. Whether she’s in the cradle or on the mattress or lying on a high pillow.
4. Move her legs out of the cradle all by herself.
5. Stop the cradle motor all by a twist of her body turning. *She’s very clever*
6. Talk a lot! She makes a lot of sound regardless she’s happy or not in the mood :) She makes happy sounds and yelling especially when she’s excited.
7. Loves to play with fabric especially Japan Cotton (baju raya dial ah tu) She loves to play peak-a-boo with mommy in between the cloth.
8. Be very excited when in the car. She refuses to lie down nor sit down in the car. She requests to be picked up to see the world…hehehe
9. Make protest cries when she’s uncomfortable…(Well, who doesn’t?)
10. Sense if mommy’s planning to go out somewhere. That is when she refuses to go to sleep…hahaha! *told you she’s clever*
11. Loves to be around people. She wants to be at the dining table with everyone while sitting in her full-of-distracting-purpose-toys-stroller.
12. Reach out for mommy’s / granny’s hair, spectacles, furin-bells hung in her cradle, flower patterns on mommy’s shirt/ kain batik and of course, her favourite rabbit toy (aka pengetuk bahu mama)
13. Stop the portable fan in the stroller with her legs. Hehehe
14. Make faces. Cute ones too…Biting her own upper lips and sometimes lower lips.
15. Watch t.v intensely especially advertisement & Din and Dugong on Animal Planet channel.
16. Pull the nipple with her mouth. *Sakit tau!!*
17. Talk to the donkey doll. (in her own words, of course)

Well, I guess that’s about it. Sorry la kalau mama tak sempat nak list up semua. Today was a busy day at the office, so tak dapat nak curi2 tulang masuk internet. *sigh*

Dah dah...cukup2...Time to bf Yuni and feed daddy...hahah
Good nite!

Happy Anniversary!

Happy 1st Anniversary, Abg!

Walaupun di kesibukan kerja seharian, sanggup melayan kerenah isteri dan anak yg kuat ngada2 kedua2nya sekali :)



We love you!!



Patutlah mama ngan ayah beriya2 nak tidurkan Yuni awal2 hari ni... Nak pergi dinner berdua rupanya...Jangan risau...Yuni masih tidur lagi hehehe...

"Ya Allah, limpahkanlah rezeki yang mencurah2 ke atas keseluruh keluarga kami dan berkatilah kami di dunia dan di akhirat, Amin"

Kaki anak gajah kah itu?

Please anyone out there explain me scientifically (read; saya tak mahu jawapan=Pembawakan) regarding my elephant-sized-sampai-tak-nampak-buku-lali embulging feet, pretty please?

Malam2 nih...saya terasa ingin memanjatkan kesyukuran ke hadrat ilahi atas beberapa nikmat despite some ujian yang telah Dia turunkan kepada hambaNya ini.. :)

A few amazing facts yang perlu saya rasa bersyukur;

1. Saya bersyukur kerana mempunyai hubby yg sgt understanding xP



He maybe a bit "berisi" right now, trying to adjust to my size...hehe...

i) He is soooooo patient although most of the time, i can merajuk tahap dewa (please excuse my unimaginable ego level)...He could be the sweetest when it comes to pujuk part :p Like today, masa tgh merajuk ngan dia...i was talking with Ita on YM...I smiled when at an issue we were talking about when he questioned me something. I looked at him to answer, remembering, i was supposed to be "merajuk" mode at thet time, quickly turned my smile to a frown...hehe...

"Kejam nye dia...tgk komputer senyum abes...bile tgk abg terus masham..hehe"

Eventually made me laugh. (Kan dah hilang mode merajuk tuh)

ii) He is soooo patient with me when i turn my rage towards him. FYI, he is sooo much better winning a mouth-fight with me, probably because dia orang Utara? Vocab Utara sangat sesuwai when it comes to gaduh mulut? Don't ask me, I don't know. And I am always the weak one in words during this lind of fights. So, sbb geram punye pasal tangan kaki semua naik la...hehe... Ala...bukannya yang teruk sgt...pukul2 manja gitu (at early stage la...give him warning to stop before i lose my head)
Tapi bila dah xreti2 nak back-off from the fight (you have to excuse men's ego too) the force increases and sometimes sakit la kan...But, in the end he will always give in...

iii) He is soooo patient with me eventhough i hate some of his friends attitude towards him. (I'm just gonna cut short this story...sbb bnyk sakit hati) Juta2 kali ungkit psl member dia sorang nih agaknye sampai semua org dah meluat kot...He still could make a joke out of it. I was so mad at his friend until I sms-ed him to go and get married to your best friend (eventually a man). I called him back feeling a bit sorry for what i wrote and asked him where is he?

"Abg dekat depan Tok Kadi ni...nak kawin dengan Taufik"

Ciss...sempat wat lawak lagi tuh...

iv) He is soooo patient in rubbing my aching tummy when baby is kicking. Although sometimes tuh masa tertido boleh tersiku perut i... (i forgive you :p)

v) He is sooo patient especially when i nak ciam...heheh

vi) He doesn't mind me not cooking for him on regular basis. FYI, i only cook when i feel like to, when i feel like doing so. And eventually, my cooking became a nice surprise to him. We always eat out, since both are working. Of course, kadang2 tuh bile dah bosan makan luar, he will start baca doa makan kuat2 like this;

"Sahaja aku makan nasi goreng kampung beli dekat Hassan Cafe kerana Allah Ta'ala"

vii) Last but not least, he is soooo hardworking when it comes to making my life a secured one in the future *sweet* He is very good in assuring me about the future... I don't need to worry about a thing cause he has everything well planned. Tapi, of course, I always buat back up plan lerr..

2. I am so bersyukur my baby is healthy :) And although baby's kicking so actively, baby doesn't hurt mommy that much. Belive me, my pain treshold is superb, Alhamdulillah.

3. I am so bersyukur that i have understanding friends around me. Doesn't matter whether they're here in Malaysia or not. Thank you guys, for your support!

4. I am so bersyukur that i have understanding parents. They don't mind me doing what i want to do. Choosing to who i want to get married to...make my own decisions etc. :)

5. I am so bersyukur my hubby is not a smoker, because i xtahan orang smoke around me, making me a Second Smoker. Hissyy...kalu nk mati cepat...matila sorang2...naperla nak kene ajak aku skali? (excuse my emo towards smokers)

Jarang2 kita bersyukur...tapi, bile dah wat list nih barula rasa redha. I mean, despite all the other problems we use to worry everyday, God has provided us with sooo many nikmat....Cume sedar dan tak sedar sahaja. Bersyukur = grows you up.

Tambah satu lagi lesson of life for my baby nanti...
p/s: Mommy is still not letting you watch AF, okay.

Okaylah....my feet dah sgt kebas. Baby going to sleep i guess...kurang tendang dah...
Well, good nite everyone! Have a nice working day/week...Saya dah start MC this week...heheh....

Wasalam.

My happiness

Notice the small things that make you happy. Notice the 2 heart shapes in the miso-soup? Couldn't help not to take picture of it. Really made my day.hehe

Inspired by Didie-chan and Azian... I think I should share more of my happiness instead of grudge and disappointments. Lately, been having trouble to cope with changes in work style, company progress etc. Although Obama did won the President election, investors are still waiting for his first move before making their decisions to invest or not...So, economically still not improving especially to companies like the one I'm working for which depends somewhat or more to US market. (Alamak...cerita xbest la plak)

So lately, my only happiness at work is resume updating...hehe...Why?

It eventually reminds me of the real me. The me which had big goals and target. The inspiring me. The honest, hardworking me.

My current company trained me well. Very well. Techniques and skills at the edge of my fingers and knowledges far beyond technical terms. Knowledges of life. But lately, it seems that I have seen the end of it. It is no more inspiring to me. Less motivation. Less of everything.

I am happy and glad that everything I learned within my working years, I learned it the hard way. Because, it sticks in my head...forever.

My ex-collegue once told me that, "Quit when you are not learning anything anymore here". So, I'm taking her advice. But before that, I'm spending my last few months..(who knows?) learning and developing the last few skills that I envy people having it, but did not have the oppertunity to learn it due to out of my job scope.

My target before I leave.

1. Learn and master Solid Works
2. Learn Purchasing matters from DR / Purchasing people
3. Learn a bit of DR regarding Sales
4. Read more motivational books
5. Spend more of my time being HAPPY!

A few things that make me happy.


My baby! Taken at 13 weeks old. The doctor was showing the heart beat, I think.


The monthly Wak Sarip's soto (only available until 10 am/day)-Best in Klang!


The RM9.90 mini-table fan. Powered by USB cable. Akak Costing tolong belikan.


Best motivational friend.


Beloved hubby! Lately, very keen on economical market since I introduced him to broadband. heheh


My best friend during pregnancy. Syok tau pakai crocs. Boleh berjalan dgn selesa walaupon berat badan bertambah...Osusume desu!


Farewell speech.Urrggghhh!! Tak sabarnye...ngeehee

Election 2008

Its 2008 Election...

To whom it may concern,

If you ever get elected, please don't build an LRT railway right in front of my house. Enough with the protest we did when you build an elevated highway in front of my house. Ever since then, we could never get peace and privacy when resting at our lawn. We even have to close our windows in the morning because your elevated highway is same level as my house's bedroom window.

Haven't you had enough packing up our area with triple storey highways?

I beg you to reconsider the LRT plan. Cause that plan sucks, dude.

Yours truly,

The Victim in action as we speak.